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Welcome

Joanna, River, Joseph and Scout

Our Family

Joanna, Joseph, River & Scout

We’re Joe and Joanna! We have been married for 9 years and we are truly best friends! Our faith and family is at the heart of everything we do. We plan most of our days around having a good cup of coffee, walking our dogs, and exercising. After a long journey with infertility, we truly feel called to the unique experience of adoption.

Please take a minute to read through our website and learn more about the adoption process. Additionally, we would welcome any prayers and you can even leave a prayer for the expectant mother.

How Can I Help?

Our job as prospective adoptive parents is to be an advocate for our future child. Below you will find some information on the adoption process and what can be expected. If you are able to, please consider donating to our Adopt Together fundraiser. Additionally, please pray for the expectant mother. We greatly appreciate any help you can provide.

For more information on how you can support us, please check out this blog article by Kathryn Russell.

We look forward to being able to share updates with the community on our adoption journey!

Steps in the Adoption Process

Pursuing a domestic infant adoption is a long process that contains a series of steps and sub-steps. It takes several months to become what many adoption agencies consider "match ready".

Below you can see the steps in the adoption process and see our progress.

An agency helps navigate you through the adoption process. The agency will be present from the initial steps of the home study all the way through finalization. The agency will help setup matches between expectant mothers and the agencies clients. They will provide the information collected during the home study to the necessary parties when a birth mother chooses to place her baby with you. Any questions you have throughout the process can also be directed to the agency. The agency may have requirements of their own that go beyond what is required in the home study.

The Home Study and education process can take several weeks to months to complete. It ensures that you and your home will provide a safe environment for a child. The paperwork includes all necessary documents needed during the legal process.

  • Identity Documents
  • Guardianship Forms
  • Adoption Preferences*
  • Federal, State and Local Background Checks
  • History (Address History, Marriage Certificate, Autobiography)
  • Proof of Insurance Medical, Auto, Home, Life
  • Financial Statements (Bank Statements, Pay Stubs, W2s, Mortgage Statements, Financial Affidavit, Other Debts, etc.)
  • Disclosures (Weapons, Therapist Release, etc.)
  • Pet Vaccinations & Safety Plan
  • 20+ Hours of Education and CPR Certification
  • Individual and Couple Interviews
  • Home Tour/Safety Check

*The Adoption Preferences worksheet requires careful consideration to know what you can and cannot support for any child that you plan to adopt. A child's potential health complications could be something to discern. Or you may live in an area that wouldn't allow a child to experience their culture. Regardless of the circumstances, it is important to remember that adoption is child focused and it would be a disservice to the child to not provide them with the best possible opportunities.

An adoption profile helps an expectant mother see a glimpse of what life for their child would look like. An expectant mother needs to know that if she decides to place her child with you that they will be in good hands. An adoption profile shows the expectant mother what your home environment looks like (do you live in the city or in the country-side), what hobbies/interests you have and what day-to-day could look like for their child. Typically prospective adoptive parents create a profile book to showcase their lives.

During the matching phase, we are presented with cases and asked if we would like to share our profile with an expectant mother. The amount of information given to us will be limited and we will have a short timeframe to decide whether or not we want to share our adoption profile with the expectant mother. This phase will generally occur during the expectant mother's 3rd trimester. If we are selected by the expectant mother as prospective parents we will become acquainted with each other.

Placement is when the birth mother signs over parental rights, indicating that she trusts us with raising her child. While on the one end we will be over-joyed to have a new member of our family, we expect that it will be difficult for the birth mother. Every part of her body will communicate that she just gave birth, but she will not be bringing a child home.

Throughout this process we think it is important to remember the birth mother and make sure that she knows that she is not alone. While we will be adding a baby as a new member to our family, we will also welcome the birth mother so that she can be present in her child's life. Placement needs to be a good fit in which the child can be supported, but also be open to have a relationship with their birth mother.

Post-placement is an exciting time and there are a lot of firsts. All of these little moments will be absolutely precious and we look forward to seeing them and sharing them with the community that has helped support us. During this time, social workers will check in and make sure that the baby is in a loving home and that all of their needs can be provided.

Additionally, we will navigate openness with the birth mother if she is willing. That will include ensuring time together for the birth mother and baby, sharing photos/videos, and continuing to develop a life-long relationship between families. Ultimately, everything we do during this time can help a child to experience love from both families.

After post-placement finalization occurs. Finalization is a legal process that establishes us (the adoptive parents) as legal guardians of the child. While we are considered the legal guardians of the child, we look forward to having an open adoption so that the birth mother can be present in the child's life.

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Disruptions

It is easy to think that after we are matched with an expectant mother that we will share our lives with that child. We hope that this process goes as smoothly as possible. But in some cases, the expectant mother can choose to parent and that is her right. If she feels fit to parent, that is an absolutely amazing thing. But it does not come without heartache. We ask that as we share updates with you, that you keep in mind that sometimes things could change at a moments notice. While we hope that we never have to experience a disruption in our adoption journey, it is something that could happen and can be helpful for you to keep in mind as you help support us.